Monday, February 23, 2009

understand friends silence....advices Jasdeep Malhotra


After several years of friendship, we usually start taking our friends for granted.

It may be right in some perspective, but still, we cannot impose ourselves on our friends' while thinking everything we do, or say will not affect our smooth relationship. We need to duly acknowledge "feelings" of our friend on all the issues and act accordingly to ensure sense of participation. If your friend is not so forthcoming or say introvert – then it's your responsibility to understand even his or her silence.

Be expert to read out silence so as to relish the bond of friendship. Let the emotional waves travel through air to reach each other instead of communicating formally through words to depict your feelings. The more you attain power to read silence, the stronger will be bond of friendship.

(Jasdeep Malhotra is Jalandhar based journalist with The Hindustan Times)

2 comments:

Unknown said...

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Unknown said...

jasdeep it reflects you dear